Break Up
Signs
Perhaps you and your loved one have been
together for quite awhile. You’ve grown to love each other and then
the unexpected happens, you break up. It hurts, but sometimes breaking up is
unavoidable.
Prior to your breakup, there were probably
many signs that your relationship was ending that either you
missed or chose to ignore. Hopefully, there will not be a next time,
but for future reference keep the following relationship
break up signs in mind, so that at least you’re not caught
in the dark when the end of your relationship is
eminent
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Not Interested in Spending Time
with You
Are you accustomed to seeing your
boyfriend/girlfriend every other night and perhaps on
weekends as well? If all of a sudden your significant other
stops spending time with you, and it’s not related to work
issues or other valid reasons, then you should be a little
wary that this is a possible break up
sign. You should
be especially worried if your loved one deliberately misses
dates that are important to you such as birthdays or special
events like anniversaries.
Downplays Your
Relationship
This may seem like an obvious break up
sign, but many people miss this clue. If he went from
referring to you as his future wife to his lady friend, then
you may have a problem.
If she suddenly insists that your
relationship isn’t all that serious when a month ago she was
dropping hints of wanting to be engaged, then you may have
an issue on hand. Verbally downplaying your bond is a way to
not only tell you that s/he wants out, but also helps them
reinforce the belief that the relationship isn’t all that
important to him/her either.
Change of
Attitude
This scenario can cover a wide variety of
occurrences. The
classic occurrence is getting angry or frustrated with the
other person in the relationship for no
reason.
So if all of a sudden your significant
other seems crankier, dissatisfied, and just overall unhappy
to be around you, it may be a sign that he or she wants out,
but instead of voicing his/her feelings, your significant
other may act out, instead, to push you
away. So if you
find yourself arguing all the time or constantly being
criticized for nothing, it may be a distinct break up sign
that he or she is ready for someone new.
Cold
Shoulder
Sometimes instead of acting out, your
significant other may give you the cold shoulder: refusing
to talk to you or acknowledge
you. He or she
may even attempt to avoid you. If this is the case, then it’s
definitely a sign that he or she is ready to walk
out.
Being constantly compared to someone
else
If your significant other suddenly starts
to compare you to someone else, in terms of pointing out all
your shortcomings, then you may need to prepare yourself for
an impending breakup. It’s his or her way of expressing
dissatisfaction with you or the relationship in an indirect
manner.
Secrets
If your significant other starts to keep
things from you, especially things that seem insignificant
it may be a sign of a breakup waiting to
happen. Even if
the secrets are regarding harmless things, it may be a sign
that your partner is attempting to exclude you from his/her
life instead of including you in
it. And of
course, secrets can also be a sign of
infidelity.
Overall, if any of these scenarios show up
in your relationship, attempt to talk to your significant
other to find out what is going on, before the relationship
falls apart. And
if they do want to leave, let them go, because as the old
saying goes, there are many fish in the
sea.
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